Chinese Wedding

On May 10th I attended the wedding of My chinese teacher, Sarah. Sarah has actually been married for over a year, legally. That's the way they do it here. They don't live together but have the legal ceremony and then save their money to have what we would call the reception. When we arrived Sarah and Jason greeted their guests who could have their picture taken with the couple. Here she wears the traditional white gown, he in tux. Once everyone arrived the couple proceeds up the aisle. This is actually in the hotel where the reception is taking place. A couple of speech's are made by the mothers not the fathers, and the couple leave. It's time to change clothes. Sarah changed into this beautiful red dress. I thought I was getting these pictures to be placed within the words but I see that's not happening. I'm sure you can match the dresses to the correct part. While they are gone, the meal is started and although I have not developed a liking for real Chinese food there is so much served that I can find a few things to eat - enough to fill me for sure. I have no real idea of what I'm eating though. When Sarah and Jason return they again proceed up the aisle pushing the cart with all the candles. The candles are put on everyone's tables. There are some more speeches and the couple leave again to change into the 3rd dress. This dress is quite beautiful, actually my favourite. It is champagned colour. There was a flower girl. I think she went up the aisle after Sarah's first time. She dropped flower petals and wore a lovely little girl dress not a fancy one like our flower girls wear. Somewhere in this time Sarah and Jason ate something quickly. Sarah and Jason went around to all the tables to talk with their guests who smoked a cigarette that Sarah lit, apparently to ensure the quick arrival of a male heir. Nobody smoked at our table and at that point we didn't know why they were doing that. We drank to the couple. Cake was served. There was also a scavenger hunt. About 6 children took part and ran through the room looking for certain items including ties which the men at our table were able to provide and when time was called they went up to the front to show what they had found. All were given a prize. The people do not dress up for weddings as we do. They wear simple clothes that's why there were no other ties. It was a lot of fun and I was glad I had the opportunity for this experience.

In 4 weeks I'll be in Africa and then home. I will add one more post at that time with my pictures from Africa and probably some from Zurich. I hope to spend 2-3 hours there on my way home. See you in the summer.